“If you live to be 100, I hope to be 100 minus 1 day, So I never have to live without you.” -Winnie the Pooh




We live and work in a cynical world. A world that would like you to be just as miserable as it is.A world that claims  marriage is a dying institution. As a man , it's considered down right atrocious to go out with the boys in the working world and to be proud that you are happily married.It's easier to blend in  and chorus in on the jokes about  the bane of a married life than to admit that you are married to an amazing woman.

Every so often, we need reminding on what it means to be human and that some of us are truly blessed to be married to an amazing person.To take time to celebrate,affirm and love that person.....everyday,till the rest of your life.

~Arul Irudayam~




“New love is the brightest and long love is the greatest. But revived love is the tenderest thing known on earth.”
-Thomas Hardy


“To find someone who will love you for no reason, and to shower that person with reasons, that is the ultimate happiness.”
-Robert Brault


“We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.”
-Sam Keen

“Love doesn’t make the world go round. Love is what makes the ride worthwhile.”
-Unknown

“Love is the greatest gift when given. It is the highest honor when received.”
-Fawn Weaver

“More marriages might survive if the partners realized that sometimes the better comes after the worse.”
-Doug Larson

“A fool in love makes no sense to me. I only think you are a fool if you do not love.”
-Unknown

“Love is a partnership of two unique people who bring out the very best in each other, and who know that even though they are wonderful as individuals, they are even better together.”
-Barbara Cage

“Love is always bestowed as a gift -freely, willingly, and without expectation. We don’t love to be loved, we love to love.”
-Leo Buscagalia

“Enjoy the little things in life… For one day you’ll look back and realize they were the big things.”
-Kurt Vonnegut

“You don’t marry one person; you marry three: the person you think they are, the person they are, and the person they are going to become as a result of being married to you.”
-Richard Needham

“To keep your marriage brimming, with love in the wedding cup, whenever you’re wrong, admit it; whenever you’re right, shut up.”
-Ogden Nash

“Love is an ideal thing, marriage a real thing.”
-Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

“In the opinion of the world, marriage ends all, as it does in a comedy. The truth is precisely the opposite: it begins all.”
-Anne S Swetchine

“Success in marriage does not come merely through finding the right mate, but through being the right mate.”
-Barnett R. Brickner

“The bonds of matrimony are like any other bonds – they mature slowly.”
-Peter De Vries

“There is no greater happiness for a man than approaching a door at the end of a day knowing someone on the other side of that door is waiting for the sound of his footsteps.”
-Ronald Reagan

“The greatest weakness of most humans is their hesitancy to tell others how much they love them while they’re still alive.”
-Olando Battista

“Was it love at first sight? It wasn’t then – but it sure is now.”
-Ann Meara (comedian Ben Stiller’s mom), married 58 years

“Marriage is like a fine wine, if tended properly, it just gets better with age.”
-Unknown

“Don’t marry the person you think you can live with; marry only the individual you think you can’t live without.”
-James C. Dobson

“If it’s important to her, then it’s important to me.”
-Greg Provance

“The couple who prays together – stays together.”
-Unknown

“The greatest favour we can do our children is to give visible example of love and esteem to our spouse. As they grow up, they may then look forward to maturity so they too can find such love.”
-Eucharista Ward

“Love like there’s no tomorrow, and if tomorrow comes, love again.”
-Max Lucado

“‎Love at first sight is easy to understand; it’s when two people have been looking at each other for a lifetime that it becomes a miracle.”
-Sam Levenson

“Many marriages would be better if the husband and wife clearly understood that they are on the same side.”
-Zig Ziglar

“The real act of marriage takes place in the heart, not in the ballroom or church or synagogue. It’s a choice you make on your wedding day, and over and over again and that choice is reflected in the way you treat your husband…”
-Barbara De Angelis

“A happy marriage is a selfless journey in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.”
-George & Yvonne Levy

“In our daily lives, we must see that it is not happiness that makes us grateful, but the gratefulness that makes us happy.”
-Albert Clark

“One of the most beautiful things in the world is a woman’s heart. It is fragile yet strong. Delicate yet resilient. When a woman gives you her heart, she gives you her most prized possession. If you love, nurture, cherish and protect it, she’ll give you the world.”
-Fawn Weaver

“Nothing feels better than when you love someone with your whole heart and soul and they love you back even more.”
-Karen Kostyla

“The most important thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother.”
-Theodore Hesburgh

“The more you invest in a marriage, the more valuable it becomes.”
- Amy Grant

“In marriage, each partner is to be an encourager rather than a critic, a forgiver rather than a collector of hurts, an enabler rather than a reformer.”
-H. Norman Wright and Gary Oliver

“A happy marriage is the union of two good forgivers.”
-Unknown

“Love is not something you look for… love is something you become.”
-Alina Villasante

“We tend to forget that happiness doesn’t come as a result of getting something we don’t have but rather of recognizing and appreciating what we do have.”
-Frederick Keonig

“Love is patient. Love is kind. Love does not envy. Love does not boast. Love is not proud. Love is not rude. Love is not self-seeking. Love is not easily angered. Love keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil. Love rejoices with the truth. Love always protects. Love always trusts. Love always hopes. Love always perseveres. Love never fails.”
-1 Corinthians 13: 4-8

“Lean on each other’s strengths. Forgive each other’s weaknesses.”
-Unknown

“There is only one happiness in life; to love and be loved.”
-George Sand

“I want a marriage more beautiful than my wedding.”
-Unknown

“Any home can be a castle when the king and queen are in love.”
-Unknown

“Family: Where life begins and love never ends.”
-Unknown

“What I love most about my home is who I share it with.”
-Tad Carpenter

“To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.”
-Unknown

“The most desired gift of love is not diamonds or roses or chocolate. It’s focused attention.”
-Rick Warren

“A great spouse loves you exact the way you are. An extraordinary spouse helps you grow; inspires you to be, do and give your very best.”
-Fawn Weaver

“It’s always nice to have someone in your life who can make you smile even when they’re not around.”
-Unknown

“Love is life. If you miss love, you miss life.”
-Leo Buscalglia

“Where we love is home – home that our feet may leave, but not our hearts.”
-Oliver Wendell Holmes, Sr.

“The most precious gift that marriage gave me was the constant impact of something very close and intimate, yet all the time unmistakably other, resistant – in a word, real.”
-C.S. Lewis, A Grief Observed

“The True Measure Of Success is determined by your home life.”
-Dan Black

“Love is not blind – it sees more, not less. But because it sees more, it is willing to see less.”
-Julins Gordon

“Having a partner in this lifetime -to grow together, love completely, ride out every storm and overcome all of life’s challenges- is one of the most beautiful blessings of marriage.”
-Fawn Weaver

“The best thing about me is you.”
-Shannon Crown

“If you live to be 100, I hope to be 100 minus 1 day, So I never have to live without you.”
-Winnie the Pooh











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